It is with a sad, and yet excited for the future heart that I announce that this will be my last post for justopenthebook.com.  God has led us on an amazing journey since we launched this ministry in March 2010.  Through trials, successes, mistakes, challenges and leaps of faith, God has remained reliable, loving and faithful to us every step of the way.

My goal foremost in this site has been to follow and obey God, and to share how real God is with others.  I wanted my journey to reflect God’s glory and how reliable He is in His word.  God remains faithful.

At various times in our ministry, and much more so lately, God has spoken to me about the importance of work and my vital role in leading my family.  I have relied on God to provide for our needs as we worked to fulfill our mission with this ministry.  Over time, God has shown me that his plan for me was to return to outside work.  As I searched for career opportunities, I had planned to continue my role in this ministry on a part time basis.

But God has other plans.  The job offer I have received is in the financial services industry, which was my first calling and where the bulk of my career has been spent.  Due to industry regulations, I cannot have a role in any outside business activity, including this ministry.

Of course, I was torn by having to make a decision to take a job that meant leaving this ministry.  Rather than weighing out all the pros and cons or worrying or making a case for either side, I turned to God’s word.  I prayed that God would lead me by his verses, and opened my bible.

As I read, I was led to the books of 1 Timothy, 2 Thessalonians and Ephesians.  Verses about caring for those in your own household, managing your children well, living an upright life, loving your wife as your own body, settling down and working hard, providing for oneself to earn the respect of outsiders, etc, poured out to me.  I saw God clearly leading me.  My first ministry, above all else, is to lead my family in a manner that honors God.  I have been blessed with an amazing wife and four (almost 5) precious children.  They are the mission field that God placed in me first and foremost.  And while I hope that my life will always lead others to Christ, I must be successful within my family before I can ever expect the privilege of ministering to others.

It was so refreshing to hear God speaking to me in this way.  I know without a doubt that it is time for a new season in my life.  To love, provide for and train up my family to honor and follow God by putting them first.  I will miss the joy of sharing my excitement about Jesus and the Bible in this blog.  But I know God will bring opportunities to share my faith in other ways.  I am excited to know I can grow as a husband and father, and can invest my time to build up the knowledge of God within my own house.

I am so deeply thankful to God for all the blessings he provided in this ministry.  Thanks to all of you who have followed our journey, read our newsletters, prayed for us, supported us, sent in prayer requests and testimonies.  My hope has always been that this site would be about what God is doing in everyone’s life, not just in mine.  And the many emails, Facebook notes and contacts we’ve received sharing how our work has encouraged others faith in Christ is more than I ever expected.

While I will miss working on JOTB, it is so humbling to know that God has other plans and has led me clearly to them.  My greatest hope is that those who have read our site would grow closer to God, trust him more and live with increased faith.  And most of all, that those who have not yet accepted Jesus would accept him now and receive his eternal life and forgiveness.

God continues to provide in ways we never anticipated, and has been completely trustworthy and faithful.  He will always be that way, for all who believe in him.

As I move on, my wife Kristy will be managing justopenthebook.com.  We are looking at bringing on new writers who will continue to share God’s truth, their stories of faith, and words of encouragement to continue this mission.  We pray that God will draw you closer to Himself through this ministry for much more time to come.

Have you ever wondered what the point of everything is?  Why are we here on the earth?  What difference does it make if we are Christians or not?

There are some obvious answers that come to these kinds of questions, and many people have many different perspectives.  Discovering the meaning of life is a search of many a lifetime.  Even being a Christian, you may here answers like “to tell others about Jesus”, to obtain eternal life, to be forgiven of sin.  And those are all valid and correct.  But what is behind all of that?  Is it just about us?  Thank God we’re saved from hell, end of story? [Read more...]

Do you ever have trouble making decisions?  I think we all struggle at times to know what is the right thing to do.  Thankfully, God has given us several ways to look to Him to help us know the right course of action.

God’s word is there for us to rely on in a very practical way.  Looking to the truths, commands and values expressed in Scripture helps us to know what God’s will for us will be in a specific situation.  By understanding how to look to the Bible for help, we can make better decisions and be more confident in the choices we make. [Read more...]

So today marks the final week – exactly one week until the due date for our next baby.  My wife has been a week or two early with most of the rest of our kids, so we are in full preparation for the arrival of baby #5.

The pillows stand ready.  The hospital bag is packed.  The infant car seat is installed and the neighbors are on standby to watch the kids as soon as labor begins.  And now we wait.  It is such an interesting feeling to know that a new daughter is coming, but not knowing whether it will be later tonight or not until this time next week.  There’s a reserve of both adrenaline and patience I keep ready, on call for when my wife says it’s time.

While we wait, we were looking last night at the gang of 4 beautiful children with which we have been blessed.  They are truly amazing.  I can’t imagine my life without any of them.

Psalm 127:3 says, “Children are a heritage from the LORD, offspring a reward from him”.  As my wife and I thought about our kids, we realized God’s reward is so much more than just the joy, love and fun these kids bring to us. [Read more...]

Earlier this week, I wrote about the great questions kids ask about God.  Sometimes, some of the simplest questions are the most fundamental to understanding the Christian faith.

Our church, Grace Fellowship of South Forsyth, recently tackled two seemingly simple, yet vitally important questions about Christ.  As both a believer and parent, the discussion helped me understand my faith better and to be in a better position to help educate my children.

The questions discussed are:

Is Christianity true?

If someone was good all of their life, but didn’t know about God, would he go to heaven or hell and why?

Check out the issues and answers by listening to the audio here.   I hope that you are enlightened by the discussion.  And if you are in the North Georgia area, come check out Grace Fellowship on Sunday!


Do you believe Christianity is true?   Do you think all good people go to heaven?

I love being a dad and teaching my children about life.  It is an honor and a joy to be “the man that knows everything” in their eyes.

My favorite questions are the ones the kids ask about God.  I love to see that they are thinking about the reality of God, about the lessons and concepts we discover together in the Bible.  However, some of the toughest theological things to answer come from the great questions my kids ask.

This morning, my 5 year old daughter came to me and asked, “Dad, do people who don’t believe in God go to the Church of Satan each week, like we go to God’s church?”

Her logic is brilliant.  The simplicity of a child’s understanding is so refreshing.  And I thank God for opportunities like this one to help explain more clearly God’s plan of salvation.

I explained to her that very few people actually attend the church of Satan.  Sadly, though, there are millions of people who have rejected God’s salvation and will face the same fate as if they had literally entered the church of Satan. [Read more...]

The quest to know one’s true identity has tremendous implications on how one will live.   The journal of the International Society for Self and Identity states:

“Work on self and identity has a special place in the study of human nature, as self-concerns are arguably at the center of individuals’ striving for well-being and for making sense of one’s life.  Life goals develop and are influenced by one’s view of what one is like, the way one would ideally like to be (or would like to avoid being), as well as one’s perceptions of what is feasible.  Furthermore, conceptions of self and the world affect how one’s progress towards these goals is monitored, evaluated, redirected, re-evaluated, and pursued again.  Thus, the “self” as a construct has far-reaching implications for behavior, self-esteem, motivation, experience of emotions and the world more broadly, and hence for interpersonal relationships, society, and culture.”

The core of how one will feel about oneself, how one will act toward others, and one’s satisfaction in life are all directly tied to how well one understands their true identity.  Knowing who you are is a key to knowing how to live well. [Read more...]

Do you know how much God loves you?

Nothing can compare with the love God has for his people.  It is something so magnificent, so undeserved and so powerful that is is worthy of thought and praise at all times.  While each of us has lived in sin, God still loved us and called us to Him.  He offers his forgiveness, his love, his power and his compassion to all who will believe.

I’ve found that fully grasping the depth of God’s love is difficult.  I have so much love for him for saving me.  But there are times where I can almost think of my salvation as a single act.  God saved me from my past…and sometimes I forget to live recognizing that he continues to save me and love me in each moment.

Beyond just forgiveness of sins, beyond the peace and wisdom he grants us, God also delights in us.  It is a remarkable thing to grasp that the God of the universe delights in every detail of one’s life.  As one seeks to love God and obey him, the Bible assures us that God in turn delights in the lives we lead.

“the LORD delights in those who fear him, who put their hope in his unfailing love.” (Psalm 147:11)

“For the LORD takes delight in his people; he crowns the humble with victory” (Psalm 149:4)

“The LORD detests those whose hearts are perverse, but he delights in those whose ways are blameless.” (Proverbs 11:20)

“The LORD detests lying lips, but he delights in people who are trustworthy.” (Proverbs 12:22)

It is amazing to know that God, more than just watching or judging us, is taking delight in the ups and downs of our lives.  He is loving, kind and ready to both help and affirm us.  He is pleased with who we are as we live in honor and submission to him.  God takes delight in our victories, our joy, our struggle against obstacles and our actions.

I have recognized that God saved me.  I understand that he is there to hear me – both my confessions and my requests.  But it is a measure of love that I can’t quite calculate to know that he delights in my life.  God is so good!

“For the LORD God is a sun and shield; the LORD bestows favor and honor; no good thing does he withhold from those whose walk is blameless.” (Psalm 84:11)


Do you recognize how God delights in you? How does this affect your understanding of God?

How does one describe the feeling of being on the brink of a new adventure?

I don’t know that I have the words to describe how things feel right now.  I am aware that I am about to begin a lot of change.  My wife is pregnant with our fifth child.  The due date is August 29th, but with a history of having babies a couple of weeks early, we could be meeting our newest treasure any day now.

I love being a father and each new child has been such a blessing, but there is still some nervousness and excitement as we get close.  Will she love me right away?  Will I be a good partner for my wife during labor?  Will the kids be OK while we’re at the hospital?  Will we get any sleep once we bring her home? [Read more...]